Monday, December 26, 2011

Happy Holidays from Santiago!

Christmas 2011
I look at the calender and say "Ah, yes, it's December," and then turn to look out the window and say "No, it's not."  I see the commercials and Christmas trees and remember that it's Christmas time and then take a cold shower 'cause it's so hot!

Welcome to December in the Southern Hemisphere.  A confusing, strange experience for Northern hemisphere-ers that leaves one realizing how much temperature and climate affects our understanding of a year and the calender.  And while BBQ's and swimming in the pool could be a fun new Christmas tradition, I still must say that there is nothing like Christmas in the winter.  Listening to Christmas carols sing of "winter wonderlands" and not being able to go outside because "baby, it's cold outside," just seem so out of place!  More appropriate Christmas carols would include lyrics such as "sunbathing in the hot sand" and "oo baby it's hot outside!"  But ah, well.

It does have it's benefits: That new bike you got or other outside toy can now be played with right away!  Can't think of anything to do on Christmas day?  Go swimming!  Have a barbeque in the yard with friends that would normally not fit in your small dining room.  Fireworks anyone?  It's no longer too cold to go outside and see them!  Want to spend time with loved ones?  Now you can for longer! The day is young and the sun won't set 'till late.  Just don't forget your sunscreen, fan, ice cream, barbeque and ice.  You'll need it.

Despite the confusion and the heat, it still has been a merry Christmas.

Antonio had his last final last Thursday so we were finally free Friday to do some last minute shopping and enjoy the park at Cerro Santa Lucia (Santa Lucia Hill).  Saturday morning we made a last-minute run to the grocery store (it wasn't as crowded as we thought it would be/had heard from other grocery store-goers!), and had lunch at the house.  I finally got to meet Antonio's third sister Rosa who lives about an hour from Santiago.

After lunch I spent the afternoon with the Chilean family (Silvia, her son Victor, and his son Fransisco) I stayed with while studying abroad here almost three years ago.  They loved the presents I gave them and it was great to see them again.  Here in Chile, the tradition seems to be to have your "Christmas Dinner" (which also includes turkey) on Christmas Eve, open presents at midnight and then play with your gifts outside until you're too sleepy or parents say "bedtime."  We were invited to share dinner with Silvia and her family but we didn't want to leave Antonio's dad, Prudencio, home alone.  Antonio and I made for ourselves spaghetti and tomato sauce with corn (Prudencio and Segundo had already had "tea" separately earlier, like usual), and then opened presents just the four of us (five if you count Lukas): me, Antonio, Prudencio (Antoio's dad), and Segundo (the guy who's worked for Antonio's family for years and lives here, too).

Today has mostly been treated as a normal day in that Antonio had to go work at the kiosk in the morning and we had lunch with Antonio's sister Ines, her husband Pedro and their youngest son, Andres.  But lunch was BBQ'd meat (both beef and pork) and dessert was the pineapple cake that I had bought.  I was finally able to thank Ines for the beautiful earrings and little coin purse she gave me and she was able to receive and thank me (and Mom) profusely for the two crochet hooks we gave her.  After lunch, Antonio, Pedro, and Andres enjoyed playing with the helicopter (the ALMOST hit Prudencio in the head), and Ines was happy to be able to talk to Mom via skyping Mom's cell phone.

Conclusion: Christmas was a success and fun!  I do miss playing games with everyone and just hanging out together (TV's take up the chatting space here).  And also really wish I had access to the movie "White Christmas," but now I think I shall start my attempt at Latkes.  Hopefully they'll turn out well.  I made apple sauce the other day in preparation (a bit sweet but not too bad).

Love and hugs to you all!  Happy Holidays!

Much love (but not too many hugs as it's too hot),
Kaia (^_^)

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Sharing the Memory of a Friend, Rob Ingram

Today I was very saddened to read that one of the amazing people I had worked with in the mayor's office, and had just seen this past summer, died of a hear attack this past weekend.  He was only 38, was very kind, generous and handsome, and has 5 children that I didn't get to meet but whom he always talked about so lovingly. 

Here is a link to an article about him.  He was the director of Portland's Office of Youth Violence Prevention, among other things, and as such was a fellow youth advocate and an amazing role model and mentor to so many, including me.  He lived his passion and did so much for so many people. 

I had the pleasure of running into him at a get-together this past summer.  I was so happy to be able to spend time and catch up with him.  When I interned in Mayor Tom Potter's office, he always said hello and took time out of his busy schedule to answer my questions and welcome me to the office.  Even at the get-together this past summer, we weren't his last stop for the day as he had come from one event and was going to stop by another in his gang-prevention role before heading home.  I feel honored to have been able to know him.  He's one of the people I hope to grow up to be like someday.  :)

In honor of his memory, I just wanted to share his life passion and story with you all.  May his memory continue to live in all who knew him or knew of him and his work.

As my favorite song sung by Sweet Honey and the Rock says, "Listen more often to things than to beings,... 'Tis the ancestor's breath, in the fire's voice we hear. 'Tis the ancestor's breath, in the voice of the water."

This is what was shared with me on Facebook about him, for those who are interested:
“I don’t work for the police department, I work for the kids.” -- Robert Ingram

THANK YOU
"As shown by how he lived his life my husband, Robert Ingram, was passionate about our community. He loved mentoring and leading. He believed in every person’s capacity to change, to be a good citizen. Your prayers have given us strength—please continue to offer them for us all. On behalf of our children and families, I offer sincere thanks for the beautiful outpouring of support and love."
--Dana Fuller Ingram

VIEWING OF OUR BELOVED
Caldwell, Hennessey, Goetsch & McGee
20 Northeast 14th Avenue (at Sandy)
Portland, Oregon 97232
Tel: 503/232-4111
Thursday, December 1, 2011
5:30pm-7:30pm in the evening

LIFE CELEBRATION
The International Fellowship Family (TIFF)
4401 NE 122nd Ave.
Portland, Oregon 97230
Tel: 503/249-0347
There is limited parking at TIFF, please carpool.
Viewing: Friday, December 2, 2011
10am until 11:00am
Ceremony: Friday, December 2, 2011
12 O’clock in the afternoon
Please note, the casket will be closed at 11:00am.

INTERMENT
Rose City Cemetery
5625 Northeast Fremont Street
Portland, Oregon 97213
503/281-3821

REPAST
Fellowship and food will be shared at TIFF at 4pm in the afternoon.

MEMORIAL FUND
If you would like to make a contribution in support of Rob’s memorial to help his family, please contribute to:
Rob Ingram Memorial Fund
Bank of America (any Portland/ SW Washington area branch)
 
FLOWERS
Flowers may be delivered to:
The International Fellowship Family (TIFF)
4401 NE 122nd Ave.
Portland, Oregon 97230
503/249-0347
Hours 9am to 4pm